My youngest, Connor, had a pretty clear idea of how he wanted to dress for Halloween this year. An anime inspired “Cat Maid”.
My wife, Robin, helped him create the costume. And then in was time to take it to school for Halloween this past Friday.
Connor was happy and excited to wear it, and of course there’s the risk of what can happen at school around the other kids.
Later that morning I received a text from one of the teachers:
They were in awe of Connor willing to be so bold and courageous and show up as he wanted. It made me immediately reflect on the impact I make by simply “showing up” and being willing to be my true self. I’ve experienced how magnetic I can be and how people respond to me. And here are my kids doing it, making their impact in their own way, this time on the school yard. Even other children can react strongly when they witness it. It’s powerful.
Connor came home from school that day feeling like a million dollars. I’ve used the word “emboldened” to describe what happens to me every time I take a risk and show up this way, and then what becomes possible the next time. I can’t wait to see where Connor takes it from here. Connor’s impact has already expanded from the school yard to my blog as I share his story for a new audience.
What lesson can you take from Connor that will help you the next opportunity you have to show up as your courageous true self?
Chris, This is fantastic! My son wore the same outfit. As a gay mom I was fearful as to how kids would react. I feared even physical violence. My fears were unfounded and his friends – even high schoolers were loving his courage. I sent you a pic on mighty networks.
Hugs,
shannon
That’s amazing, Shannon. Thank you for sharing that (and the photo!) and welcome to the blog :-).